Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Modern Pressures and Religion

Why is society so prone in recent years toward ultra-conservative politics and religion? Why is the SBC taken over by power hungry control freaks who insist on biblical inerrancy as a creed and conformity as a practice?

A newly graduated pastor, recently called to a typical conservative SBC church in this area, is raising eyebrows each Sunday with what flows from the pulpit. Two quick examples: the second sermon dealt with corruption among us. His primary text was the Belk lingerie insert in that Sunday’s paper which was described as “pornography.” Another sermon for communion used numerous passages to tell people how sinful they were and that none should take the elements unless they had become perfect enough under his standards. A friend of mine was there and said, “I don’t think anyone but him was good enough to qualify that day!”

Let’s be honest. We have always had this element in Christianity and Southern Baptists, but why is it they seem to rule the day?

I have been watching this “stuff” in every corner of life since 1979. Red flags keep saying, “Something is wrong.” Recently I revisited some basic things I learned about human personality. The term “Reaction-Formation” keeps coming to mind. See if it makes sense to you.

Whenever forces attack our personality, it fights back with “defense mechanisms” that protect from insanity. One of these defenses is termed Reaction Formation—it replaces in the conscious mind our subconscious urges with a showy opposite.

A passage from an Abnormal Psychology text says:
Some people reduce their anxieties and feelings of personal conflict through the method of strengthening repression by denying the conflict. The so-called “old maid’s neurosis” (the fear of finding a man under the bed) is a thin disguise of a repressed wish. Similarly, childhood prudery is a reaction formation against growing sexual interest. The reformer and the vice crusader are also examples of reaction formation. They are reacting in many cases against their own erotic interests and inclinations. (The Disorganized Personality, George W. Kisker, PhD., 1964, McGraw-Hill, NY, pp. 150-151.)


I like the old saying, “Only God is perfect—and, quite frankly, I am uncomfortable with people who think they are gods.” In one of my early churches we hired a summer youth worker known for his enthusiasm and piety. During the first Bible Study he berated the girls for wearing halter tops. Some were emotionally to the point of tears. This fellow was engaged at the time and married in the fall. His new wife’s roommate happened to know for a fact she was pregnant when they married. The only explanation for this dedicated and righteous young man’s action is Reaction-Formation. He was not insane, but his life was terribly unhealthy and dishonest at that time.

Every day we are confronted with more psychological pressure. Why is it that “Baby Boomers” (born 1946-1966) with college degrees and supposed intelligence are so drawn to a “Reaction-Formation” unhealthy religious interpretation? Here I speak from personal knowledge as a 1946 Baby Boomer.

The difference between sanity and insanity is one of degree. All of us have crazy moments, but healthy people recover quickly. People who are emotionally immature or over-stressed often do not see it. Even worse, these sick people often seek out others who are equally sick so they do not feel like strangers. At one time you could feel confident an SBC Seminary graduate was mature enough to help sick or immature church members grow. You hoped the lay leadership in a healthy church would, by example and teaching, help others grow. This may no longer be the case. Whenever a society or church has more sick than healthy personalities, the whole group could make a sane person think he is crazy because he is not willing to agree with the crowd.

Try this theory on for size: World War II made everyone live in trauma, but “we” won. Those coming back quickly joined churches and started raising families (the golden 50’s of SBC growth). Many had found God in the foxholes. On the other hand, our churches always reflected society and the sick side was that when jobs were plentiful and money good, we joined the church, raised families, but soon forgot the spiritual God who saved us from death and began to worship the God of American material success. Ignoring racism and prejudice, every white Southern Baptist church built bigger buildings and was “SUCCESSFUL.” Children were supposed to join too because “it was the right thing to do.” Many joined at age 6-10, but never grew beyond that first commitment.

Soon the sweet post-war babies became teenagers and the popular thing was to rebel. By-and-large my contemporaries preferred to read Playboy over the Bible, substitute booze for communion grape juice, and burn flags or smoke pot during Viet Nam. Only the “dumb few” went to church each Sunday or discussed things religious. My contemporaries at Emory University were more concerned with becoming rich Doctors, Lawyers, etc. than anything else. I assume most were church members, but few showed any evidence of a personal commitment with any understanding of the cost of discipleship.

Now those “Baby Boomers” are 40-60 and suddenly everyone is “getting religion.” What kind is it we want—notice I said “want” and not “need.” How much of religion in mega-churches is entertainment rather than servanthood? How much of it is personal and unique to the individual or regimented and dictated by the new “king-pastors’ and TV preachers? How much of it is healthy and normal or so showy that many ask, “Is this real?” Yet we glorify it as “successful church growth.” Reaction-formation more often comes to my mind.

I propose that what we are calling a revival of the masses is, instead, a showy opposite of the drug-infested, flag-burning, anti-authoritarian 60’s. Herein lies the sickness: it is a public show trying to offset the emptiness of early adulthood. If it was real and filed with love and compassion, it could be great. If it is empty and faked, it is a showy opposite which only covers inner insecurity and lack of faith.

As I read the Gospels and the Psalms or Prophets, I see much good therapy and direction. The same personality problems existed, but with no fancy modern names. Conservative and pious religious persons hated Jesus. He preferred to walk with bare-footed and smelly working folk rather than dress nicely and smell incense at the Temple. He was a centered and sane reflection of worshipping God. It had nothing to do with the traditional, superficial, reaction-formation religion of his day—partly for this they killed him.

Jesus, to me, was that perfectly centered god-man rather than a perfect god pretending to be human.

Without his help and direction we are always pretending, some more and others less. The more we pretend to be something we are not, the sicker we become.

I wish that we could chart a new course for free Baptists that is not pretentious or sick, but honest, directed by faith, and full of mutual respect. I believe Jesus made a comment about the sick needing a physician. It would be good if the physician is sane and normal rather than breathing psychotic germs across those he pretends to help.

4 comments:

  1. Have you read Scott Peck's "People Of the Lie"? He defines evil as a special variety of narcissism. (Let me be quick to point out that you did not employ the word "evil" in your post, but the concepts which you explore are some of the same ones that Peck does, and to which he gives the clinical label of "evil.") A couple of pertinent excerpts:

    "Since he refused to acknowledge his imperfection, it was inevitable that Cain should take the law into his own hands and murder his brother. In some similar, although usually more subtle fashion, all who are evil also take the law into their own hands, to destroy life or liveliness in defense of their narcissistic self-image."

    "It is not their sins per se that characterize evil people, rather it is the subtlety and persistence and consistency of their sins. This is because the central defect of the evil is not the sin but the refusal to acknowledge it."

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  2. Louis--

    Since I deal with tree removal / surgery for a living, I don't have much time for good pulpit reading. Scott Peck is one of the insightful ones I hear quoted often.

    You are exactly right about "evil" or "sin." In the Greek, the word picture for harmartia is "separation from God / self / others."

    That is almost identical to Schizophrenia which is "split personality." All Psychotic people have lost a sense of reality and are separated from it.

    Thanks for the good connection on deep thinking. Each generation has its heroes who, sadly, are usually heard by the serious minority seeking truth. The other group which seeks money / entertainment / hair raising sensual thrills keep on tromping the road to Perdition!

    It sometimes runs through the front door of churches these days--never coming out!

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  3. Actually, I don't necessarily consider Peck to be good "pulpit reading." (Not that portions of "People of the Lie" don't lend themselves to that application.) Peck was a psychiatrist schooled in the classical systems of Freudian psychoanalysis, who came to Christianity rather late in life. This book is more an examination of the phenomenon of human evil from a clinical / psychiatric perspective than from a strictly biblical one. From my perusal of several of your posts, I perceive that you have an interest and some training in psychological studies, which is why I recommended "People of the Lie." I'm no psychologist, but I know that my copy is heavily highlighted!

    Blessings to you!

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  4. Louis--

    I found my interest in Psychology as I wanted to help people, but was not interested in earning an MD to prescribe pills for pain.

    In that interest I was determined to earn my PhD in Psychology. As I was applying for graduate schools, my pastor asked me a question I did not want to ever hear: "What will happen if the church does not have intelligent and caring young men carrying on a tradition of informed religion?"

    That was the beginning of my "call." With a background in Psychology I found I could see beneath the surface of the strange behaviour of people in churches. Hence, my analysis of current religiosity as seen from a Psychologist's point of view.

    Most Psychologists shy from religion as a somewhat unhealthy approach to life. They want to keep things sanitary when the average sufferer of mental illness has a spiritual void leaving him without points of reference. I find those who understand the basic concepts of human development emotionally are quite adept at diagnosing the strange behaviour these days.

    You see, we are all in search of meaning in life. Sadly, too many modern churches and preachers are preying on struggling souls to convince them that if they give more and attend more they will find peace. In reality, they are using these people as workers trying to work their way into the Kingdome of Heaven. Also as givers trying to buy their way into the Kingdom.

    The preacher and church profit. The person is hardly helped to find joy and peace without any strings attached.

    Let's be honest--most people do not want to confront their own state of "sin" defined as separation. Instead they opt for the little list of rules and their following. It is the way of the Pharisee in my opinion. Those guys were religious, but the were seldom happy nor sane. In Matthew 23 Jesus pretty well sums it up and it's not nice!

    Read it and see!

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